25

On Friday the fourth of May I turned twenty five. Some people regard it as a bit of a landmark birthday and some don’t. I was a little worried as it’s almost regarded as the social norm to have your shit together by 25, the house and car, career paved out and a long term relationship with all the trimmings.

But life doesn’t really work like that. There is no cast iron plan, no set route for everyone to go down. Some people have the world as their oyster at 25. Some have a cat a reasonably paid job and still live with their mother. In fact I’m starting to think most are the latter now that the economy is not overly 90s baby friendly (85-99 to be specific… I suppose…) and is making it oh so bloody difficult to get a decent phone contract let alone a mortgage.

I’d like to think I’m in the ~semi shit together~ phase and I’ll probably stay there until I’m 30 if I’m honest. I moved back home to save for a mortgage and help my mum out a little. After about two months I met my now boyfriend and after 4 he moved in. Pretty fast I know but the circumstances surrounding us at the time pulled it all together. Along with him came his dog, a chest of drawers and a new bed. Shifting around the bedroom, fitting everything in, changing MY car into OUR car and MY home into OUR home. It somehow seemed to fit and fast forward 8 months and like an old couple watching telly in bed at night with the dog by my side and a cup of tea!

As expected I spent my birthday with my boyfriend and family. I went to lakeside shopping centre, which if you haven’t been, is huge and has a cinema and 4 storey Primark for starters. It’s situated in Thurrock, Essex and from where I live on the south coast it’s journey to it consists of going through the Dartford Crossing (a tunnel going under the Thames river) and on the ghastly M25 but it makes up for it when you can spend an entire day there and have lunch on the lake in the sunshine.

I also had a meal with my family and my boyfriends family which was lovely and thankfully I had wonderful weather for the entire weekend of my birthday. As English people do when it’s sunny we had a family BBQ and got out the paddling pool for the little ones.

I suppose most of this post is really me just verifying to myself that it doesn’t matter that I haven’t got the money for a mortgage yet, that we aren’t engaged to be wed or pregnant. Everyone has there own time for things in life and mine is perhaps slower than some but equally as important and maybe even faster than others. It’s entirely personalised to each individual. As you get older I think your birthday is less about celebrations and more about the next upcoming year of your life. What you might achieve, memories and experiences. Having a good knees up helps to go through those though!

I guess what I’m saying is just do you. The only person that matters in your past, present and future is yourself. Without you there is none of those nice things or experiences. Your twenties are about finding yourself and learning the world. Learning what suits you, what doesn’t, compromising and how to walk away from things that don’t benefit you. It doesn’t matter if your shit isn’t quite together. Nobody should judge you so don’t judge yourself.

My first 25 was eventful. I’m sure the next will be even more so.

CA x

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Q & A

Check out this interview I did with Louise over on her blog – how about answering the questions yourself or asking your followers? CA x

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Hello My Lovely Lot,

Yes its been a while but I took a break to try a different blogging platform and found out that it just wasn’t for me so have come back to my lovely followers on here.

With that being said I agreed a while back to take part in a Q&A with the awesome @charlottexamy but of course me being me and finding my feet I let her down and took a lifetime to sit down and do it. But here we are 🙂 I hope you guys get just as much enjoyment our of it as I’m sure Charlotte will.

  1. Introduce yourself:  Louise Anne Barnard, 24 years old, from Horsham West Sussex. I am currently a Front Of House Manager at a gym.
  2. Do you have a 5 year plan if so what is it?: I mean what I want and what happens lets…

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Favourite Playlist… March

I decided that as well as posting my favourites, in general, I would post my monthly favourite playlist, because what is music if it’s not for sharing?!

This months favourites are the 80’s.

Full of rhythmic melodies, sing along vibes and some iconic greats, this playlist is full of songs for everyone.

Take a look at this playlist on spotify, and let me know your thoughts!

 

 

CA x

GIVEAWAY TIME!

In order to boost my site and my Facebook and show you guys how I intend to keep going with this I have decided to run a giveaway!

The prizes will be a little bundle of goodies from TAM beauty, the owners of MAKEUP REVOLUTION:

1 x GLOSS LIP KITS  in ORIGINAL (nude)

2 x METALLIC LIP KITS in EMPRESS (gold) and IN WAITING (pink)

1 x ‘CAPRICORN’ compact brow and eyeshadow palette.

1 x LIP LACQUER in VAMP (purple)

And one set of dramatic faux mink lashes! (Not from TAM though!)

 

 

 

GIVE AWAY RULES – 

  1. LIKE MY FACEBOOK > HERE < and like this post on the page
  2. SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE >HERE<

 

Give away closes 21st March at 7pm GMT. Must complete both actions to be entered. Winners will be contacted via email.

Good luck!

CA x

 

A couple of things about me…

I recently read an about me post on someone else’s blog and I liked the idea of doing a quick fire Q and A. So here is mine!

  • What are some things that most people don’t know about you?

I had teenage epilepsy with no actual cause.

  • What are your favourite movies?

13 going on 30, The Lost Boys, The Breakfast Club, most 80s films.

  • What is your favourite childhood memory?

My Timon and Pumba anorak, walking in the woods, spending time at my aunties with my cousins.

  • Do you have an embarrassing story?

I had a seizure in the middle of a town square… that was pretty embarrassing.

  • What has been your greatest success in life so far?

Passing my driving test.

  • What are your most epic failures (and how did you overcome them)?

I try not to remember failures as I think that it’s part of human nature and that we should embrace things for as they are and move forward. Does that make any sense?

  • What would you say to a younger version of yourself?

Don’t listen to the people that discredit you, adore yourself, do what you want. If you want to be an internet personality, do it. If you want to be a scientist, do it. You make your life, not the girls in your year group.

  • What does a typical day in your life look like?

At the moment, I’m not doing much, my life has kind of halted due to my MH, but I am getting back on the horse and going for things, slowly. I am becoming more proactive though now so each morning i am getting up and planning blog posts!

  • What is your idea of the “perfect” day?

A warm sunny day, near the beach, sea food dinner with my loved ones.

  • If you could have lunch with one person, who would it be?

MJ or Barack Obama.

  • What things make you happy?

Food, cuddles, waking up early and realising that you can go back to sleep, a good tv series, seeing the world, being loved.

  • What things have you learned from your parents?

How to value money and what it’s worth, budgeting, self respect and self confidence, how to run a home and still be a career boss.

  • What is an important lesson you learned recently?

To accept things for what they are and to not worry about the future as it changes every second.

  • What is your favourite restaurant?

TGI Fridays / Hard Rock Cafe / Five Guys

  • What is your fitness routine?

I tend to do 10 mins cardio to warm up, cross country cycle, core work outs, rowing and then cardio for 10 mins to cool down.

  • What is your makeup routine?

Moisturise, prime, foundation, eyebrows, eyeshadow if I’m wearing it, mascara, highlighter and contour, and then lippie last.

  • What things can’t you live without?

Mascara, foundation, Netflix, my boyfriend and my mum.

  • Do you have any music you’re obsessed with at the moment?

I adore The Greatest Showman soundtrack and the GOTG soundtracks at the moment.

  • What books are on your shelf?

The Harry Potter collection, CS Lewis Chronicles of Narnia, countless non-fiction books about child abuse/crimes/things that shocked the nation. A variety!

  • What podcasts do you listen to?

I actually don’t listen to podcasts, but I have thought about getting into them, I’ve been told that there’s a few to help with mental mindfulness and  anxiety relief.

  • What is in your bag?

My phone, my purse, my car keys, so? fresh melon body spray, and ALWAYS one of the NYX lip creams.

  • What is your morning routine?

I usually wash my face in the morning, get dressed and then moisturise, prime and do my make up. Nothing exciting.

  • What is your bedtime routine?

I will either wipe my make up off with my wipes (I use modelsown) or I use my w7 make up cloth, and then use Mario Badescu products on this post.

  • How do you relax after a long day?

I tend to go straight home and put my pjs on in fairness! I’m pretty lazy if I’m not gyming or running errands.

  • Can you share pictures of your workplace?

No,  I don’t discuss my professional life on the internet.

  • What are your hobbies?

Obviously I like to blog, I also enjoy the gym and I often go to the beach at night to relax.

  • What are your favourite YouTube channels?

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I have recently got into beauty so these are my current favourites.

  • What is your most commonly used swear word?

I try not to swear in fairness, but I do have a tendency to say sh*t a fair bit.

  • What is your star sign/moon sign?

Taurus is my star sign, libra is my moon sign.

  • What is the last book you read?

I’m currently reading a book on serial killers dating from around 1800 – present day and the police enquiries relating to them.

 

 

Tag me if you do these questions yourself it’d be cool to see some of your answers.

 

 

CA x